Question of the week:Our teenager has been after us to buy him a car. We think car ownership could be a good way for him to start thinking about how he spends his money. What's the best way for us to help him get a car? And do you think car ownership is a useful tool for teaching children valuable financial lessons? --J. and P.
Dear J. and P.,
The combination of parents, kids and cars never fails to bring out the emotions. For teens, owning a car means freedom. For their parents, it means the welcome end of chauffeuring duties, but also new concerns about their how to be responsible parents and teach their children responsibility, too.
There is a whole range of ways to addresses this issue. When we asked members of the Armchair Millionaire community for their advice on kids and car ownership, we heard every possible perspective. Here are three:
Spring for the car yourself. "I bought my daughter a good used vehicle when she was eighteen and about to graduate high school. I also pay for her insurance. I did this so she could focus more on her college studies. When she was growing up, we agreed that she was to study hard and get good grades and I would provide these luxury items for her in return." --Steve
Go half and half. "I matched my son and daughter's savings for their first car. They had to pay their own insurance. This way they had their own investment in the car and, I feel, took better care of it. They both originally wanted new cars, but when they had saved up about $1,000 they decided a used car was the economical way to go." --William
Let them earn it. "I think that buying your first car is one of the developmental milestones in a kid's life. Plus, you treat something with more respect if you had to earn it. It's the first thing that teaches a kid the value of money." --Sarah
The right answer really depends on you and your teen. You'll first have to decide if car ownership is right for your son at all. Does he need a car to get to a job or school activities, or does he just want one for cruising around town? Is he a good driver? How responsible is he in general?
If you do decide to give him permission to own a car, my guide can help you with the questions you should discuss with him before buying.
The Armchair Millionaire Guide To Teen Car Ownership
- Who will pay for it? There's an argument that if your child earns their own money to buy a car that they'll be more responsible with the car than if it is simply given to them. On the other hand, if you pay for some or all of it, you'll likely have a greater say in the kind of car your teen ends up with and how it gets used. You'll need to strike a balance that works for everyone.
- Should it be new or used? If your teen is putting up the money, consider that buying new will probably not be an option--unless you agree to finance the car or co-sign a loan. If you choose the used car route, you'll want to balance out concerns of economy (older cars are less expensive) with concerns about safely (older cars also have fewer safety features).
- What will it really cost? It's easy for teens to focus only on a car's purchase price, but that's only the beginning of the expense of owning a car. Help your teen run the numbers on exactly what it will cost to fuel, maintain and insure their new wheels every month. Pay particular attention to insurance--both of you may be shocked at the cost of insuring a teenage driver, so check out what it will cost to insure a car before you buy it.
- What about other priorities? There's more to teen finances than cars. In particular, talk about your expectations for your child's contribution to their college expenses.
THE BOTTOM LINE: For most teens, owning a car is their first significant financial responsibility. By taking a balanced, common sense approach, you'll help them move on to adulthood with their finances intact.
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